Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Monday, January 26, 2009

Friday, January 23, 2009

The Yabos- True Colors

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Out and about with your Mentee

A new opportunity has come up for Mentors and their Mentee's. Come get involved in a hands on program that is looking out for our wildlife...















Snowy Plover chicks with their parent - July 18, 2008 Photo - Coal Oil Point Reserve

The Western Snowy Plover is a tiny shore bird that breeds on the Pacific coast from southern Washington to southern Baja.The Pacifc coast population consists of approximately 1,800 breeding paits and 3,500 - 4,000 wintering individuals. Plover nesting season is February through late September and on the California coast, nests usually appear by the tihrd week of March. Plovers eat the sand flies and other arthropods (bugs) that are attracted to decaying seaweed. Their nests generally consist of a shollow scrape lined with beach debris and typically occur in flat, open, sandy areas with little vegetation. They typically lay three eggs and their nests are found within 100 meters of water.

The last known breeding pair in Los Angeles County was recorded in Manhattan Beach in 1949. Between 260-334 spent the winter in LA County between 2004-2006, but they don't, won't, or can't nest here because of increased habitat disturbance like: beaching grooming and the consequent removal of nesting and foraging habitat; off-leash dogs; increased beach visitors; and, increased vehicle use on beaches.

Snowy Plovers were listed as Federally Threatened on March 5, 1993. LA Audubon is working with biologists, state and federal agencies, conservation organizations and volunteers on a Federal Recovery Plan (USFWS 2007). Out goal is to get Plovers breeding in LA County once again. We are currently working on study designed to determine which beaches, and where on those beaches, in LA County Plovers like to hang out. We provide that info to agency staff and managers and make recommendations to help protect the Plovers on LA beaches so that one day they may again nest and breed in Los Angeles County!

Join LA Audubon on a visit to Malibu (or another LA Co beach) to monitor Snow Plovers! Your help will be greatly appreciated! Our 2009 schedule is:

Feb 6-12
Mar 7-13 beach-wide
Apr 5-11
May 4-10 beach-wide (dependent on USFWS window)
June 2-8
July 17-23
Aug 14-210
Sep 12-18 beach-wide
Oct 12-19
Nov 13-19
Dec 11-17

We will be having a training at the end of February, although this is not required to participate. If you'd like to join us, pleased contact:
Mary Loquvam
Executive Director
Los Angeles Audubon Society
323.664.1294

Monday, January 19, 2009

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

January Mentor Tips

2-MINUTE MENTOR TIPS

By Youth Mentoring Connection

A series of helpful hints for mentors

January 14, 2009

Coming up in this issue:

Scenario: What would you do? Situations you may encounter with your mentee

Things To Do: Things to do with your mentee

Inspiration: Selected quote(s)

What would you do?

Situation:

Your mentee just failed one course and received a “D” in another. You want to help him improve his grades.

As a great mentor I would…

A) “Have him bring his schoolwork to our next session so that I can review it to discover just where I can help out. In the areas that I’m not able to help him, I’ll find someone who can.”

B) “His grades are not my job. Although I care about his grades, I’m a social mentor, not a tutor. I can help best by making our time together fun and by helping my mentee feel good about himself.”

C) “Discuss the situation with him to determine what the root causes of the poor performance are.”

Although there is some merit to each of the answers, we feel that the best solution to this situation is “C”. Let’s take a look at each one:

A) “Have him bring his schoolwork to our next session so that I can review it to discover just where I can help out. In the areas that I’m not able to help him, I’ll find someone who can.”

Sometimes the temptation is to jump right in and fix the problem. However, the problem may not be your mentee’s ability to do the work or comprehend the subject matter. You could spend hours reviewing your mentee’s subjects with him only to find out that the issue is not comprehension, but something else like “not turning in assignments / getting homework done”, or missing too many classes.

B) “His grades are not my job. Although I care about his grades, I’m a social mentor, not a tutor. I can help best by making our time together fun and by helping my mentee feel good about himself.”

It is true that in most programs there is a clear distinction between mentor and tutor. However, there are many ways you can help without actually engaging in the academics directly. Even though you are not required, or trained to be a tutor, not addressing the problem would also be setting a bad example. Social mentor’s roles are to be a resource and to help the mentee learn to solve problems.

C) “Discuss the situation with him to determine what the root causes of the poor performance are.”

We like this answer because it gives you the opportunity to help your mentee in a very significant way with a current and serious issue, without taking his academic problems on as yours. Here is a simple game plan:

1. First, get yourself in a good place to be helpful by establishing a healthy mindset: Accept that this is a serious situation without being alarmed about it, and realize that your mentee may or may not see it as a serious problem. Your most important job as a mentor is to help your mentee feel that he can get through this. Above all, try not to be judgmental, which may create defensiveness from your mentee that could get in the way of resolution.

2. Once you’re in the right mindset, check your mentee’s attitude. Is he willing to take responsibility? Ask questions like: “What do you think is the reason for these grades?” “Are you interested in exploring some ways that you might be able to bring them up?”

3. If you’ve been through Youth Mentoring Connection’s Mentor Training, this is a good place to apply the “5 Questions Problem Solving” technique. (If you haven’t been through that particular training, the point of the technique is to empower your mentee by asking questions that allow the mentee to discover what he does that gets in the way of his own success and then develop his own plan for resolving it.)

4. After doing this you may find that your mentee simply does not comprehend the subject matter, or may have fallen so far behind that he’ll not catch up without additional help. If you are capable and interested in taking on the tutoring role, then by all means do so. However, this is not the primary role of a mentor in most programs. So, you may also want to help your mentee by working with him to find the appropriate help. Your program coordinator should be able to tell you what tutoring is available at your mentee’s school.

5. Some other things you may want to consider doing to help your mentee:

· Get to know his teachers. Introduce yourself to them and ask them how you can lend a hand. Check beforehand with the parents so they feel supported and not that you are trying to intrude into their territory.

· Help your mentee design a homework schedule. Help him organize his assignments and complete them on time.

· Review your mentee’s course load and help him discover if he needs to make some adjustments.

· Spend part of your meeting time working on his homework and congratulate him on small accomplishments.

· Make learning fun. Engage your mentee in researching and learning about topics he's interested in, whether or not they’re part of school work, so that he enjoys the learning process

· Find out if the program or your mentee’s school offers training in how to be a tutor.

Inspiration

“You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.”

- Winnie the Pooh

How can we help? If you have any questions/concerns regarding your
relationship with your mentee, please feel free to email them to us at
ymc@youthmentoring.org

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Tuesday, January 13, 2009

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